2013
Educating the Small {Homeschooling}
Children are amazing. They can hear the quietest whispers. They can smell things that we sometimes miss. They absorb the smallest details of everything.
God gave them these sensitivities for one reason: to learn. It’s a fact that children will learn regardless of how they are educated. They will soak up knowledge from everything that surrounds them.
Educational experts today will tell you that children should begin to learn as soon as possible. This is true. They should. But not through text books and forced education in a building that allows them no experience with the real world. Children should be presented with experiences that allow their minds to broaden and feel and exist in the world that was created especially for their senses to be developed in.
From the day we are born, we are learning. We look around and take in everything that we see, touch, feel, hear and taste. We learn from these things.
If something tastes bad or gives us a shock when our tongue touches it, we learn not to taste or do that again. If something hurts when we touch it, we learn not to touch it again. If something is loud when we drop it, we try not to drop it again. As the opposite if it feels soft, we want to touch it. If it tastes good, we want to eat all that is offered and then some. All learning experiences.
Today’s world is indoctrinated into believing that from birth, children must be prepared for schooling. What is missed is that children are already learning. Worksheets and a teacher standing at a blackboard are not necessary for education. Neither is a room filled with one to two adults and approximately 30 children.
What is needed, in my opinion, is a person that will allow a child to experience the wonderful things the world has to offer. The experiences that God intended for children to have in His world. A field trip to the park to beach to play in the sand and collect shells to count. A walk down the road to pick up pine cones and see what birds are flying by. Even examining a puddle after the rain can bring about a learning experience that a child won’t soon forget.
These are experiences my children and I have every day through homeschool education. Yes, we are lucky to be able to enjoy these things. Maybe you could too? Stop thinking about the educational path that society wants for children and begin to look at all the educational things to enjoy while they are still young and with you. Children grow up too fast to waste time doing anything else.
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The “U” Word {Homeschooling}
I have four children. Three who are school aged and one sweet baby. I chose a long time ago to homeschool them. If you have been on my blog long, or are my Facebook friend, etc then you already know all of this.
We are not traditional homeschoolers. I don’t have time for that! But we are homeschoolers none the less.
I came to realize recently that I don’t talk a whole lot about our homeschooling adventures. I honestly have no idea why except maybe it’s because, to me, our homeschooling doesn’t look a whole lot different than the everyday normal. We play, we eat, we draw, write, color, watch tv. This list could get pretty long. We do all the same things you do when your children are home, only we do them as part of our schooling.
See we are Eclectic in educational style. We are extremely relaxed. We border strongly on Unschooling.
I can hear your sharp intake of breath. “Did she just say Unschooling?! Isn’t that doing no school at all?! You mean she’s not teaching those kids?! The shame.”
No, no! That’s not what Unschooling is at all! Unschooling is allowing my children educational freedom to learn on their own. Unschooling is having faith in God to lead our daily studies. Unschooling is letting my children be children as God intended for them to be.
I teach by playing with my kids or seeing to it they have the necessary tools to learn with. I teach as they ask questions to learn more about something they want to know. I teach by explaining that it’s not proper to say “I ain’t gonna play with she today” and why it’s not. This list can go on too.
What you won’t see in my home every day is me standing at a black board writing out words or me standing over my daughter as she practices her writing. You won’t find me patiently waiting while they finish up a test or timing them as they learn their math facts. You won’t find my children learning rote memorization of facts they don’t find interesting or us reading from a text book written just so they can be equal educationally to millions of other students.
What you will find is a library stocked with interesting books on 1000’s of subjects that they can and do pick up and read at will. You will find a stocked video area and a subscription to Netflix, along with a full channel satellite package so they can view documentaries and other educational movies at the drop of a hat as we learn. You will find the internet connected at all times so we can research things that catch their interest or puzzle their minds. You will also find tons of toys for interactive play, legos for building and math, crayons, paper, coloring pages, and a working printer for challenging them to absorb their world daily.
That is the way of Unschooling and Relaxed, Eclectic education. We learn every day about many different things in a way we love, making education something we love. And I, nor my children, would have that any other way.