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Who’s Fault Is It Really? {Thoughts From Me}

December 15, 2016 by Dana

Last night I was at home watching a movie with Don and the rest of the family. I am pretty sure it was a Christmas movie, yet I can’t remember the name.  It was the typical man and woman meet and fall in love movie.  Yet, near the end of the movie, there was one statement that really hit home for me.

You see in all my failed relationships, the other person has always pointed the failure towards me, yet I never felt the failure was completely my fault.  The men in my life have always tried to make me feel that I was the problem, that it wasn’t them.  They have told me that I would continue to find the same problems over and over because, well, that problem was me.

Honestly, I was beginning to believe them.  Then Donald came along and he has worked to change my thinking.  Trust me, it’s been really hard for him to do but this movie confirmed what he’s told me since we met.

You see, it was never me that was the problem.  It wasn’t really them that was the problem either.  The real problem was that these guys I was with were never meant for me.  Since they weren’t right for me, our relationships could never work.  It wasn’t anything either of us did, it was simply the wrong person for me to be with.

Now I know that’s easy to see now but it wasn’t so easy to see when I was with them.  And walking away doesn’t make it easy to see when you have been told over and over that you are the problem.  Sometimes it takes a HUGE wake-up call, like hearing it said straight out in a random movie, to make you realize, “Hey, I’m not the problem here!”

We can never be happy with the wrong person.  God created us each to be unique and He created each of us to fit one other unique individual.  That individual is our other half, the love of our life, our soulmate. 

I’m blessed to have truly found mine, to know of his love for me, for my children, for our family and our life together.  Sure things aren’t always perfect because we’ve both been brainwashed by being in the wrong relationship before finding one another and finding our right relationship, but we work hard to heal and love and move forward together.  We are learning to forgive, to depend on each other and to embrace our life as it should be with one another. 

When love is right, it’s just right.  You know it wholeheartedly.  I’m so thankful to have found my love in Don and also to have found this healing piece of truth from something so simple as this.

Until next time…
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Filed Under: 2016, blessed, blessings, blessings from God, enjoying life, family, Love, love god, love my family, loving life, Luv'N Lambert Life, thoughts from me

Trials Bring Gifts {Thoughts From Me}

April 7, 2013 by Dana

It’s been a heck of a week in Lambert Life.  I was sick for most of this week and well, like most people, I despise being sick.  There is little that I hate more.
Then to top it off, Emma had her casting and botox scheduled for the beginning of the week.  Let me just say that traveling almost 2 hours while you are sick to your stomach is NOT FUN!  Then we finally got there, only to find that Emma had consumed milk at some point that morning so we were not able to have her procedure done at all.  Trip back home.
Wednesday brought a phone call from Winston’s GI requesting an appointment for the next day.  Umm NO… not when I was just getting over this whatever I had.  So that appointment was scheduled for next week.  
Thursday brought it’s own surprises but we muddled through them to finally make it to the weekend.  I must say that by this point I was (am?) feeling pretty worn out, exhausted and overwhelmed.  I am just thankful to have made it through all of the week’s trials and I am so ready for a new week to come about.  
Some good friends and I, found a little break in our week as we rode to the hunting club as a free way to get out of the house with no kids and no worries.  And on our little adventure I was reminded just how sweet life is, how awesome God is, and how he is still there even when I don’t expect to find him.  These trials may follow me today, this past week and more to come in my future but I’m not alone.  I have God leading me and lending me a hand.  He’s glorious beyond words and so are the many blessings he gives to us.
Here’s one from today to share:  A black bear we saw at the hunting club while we were riding around.
What glorious things did God show you today???

Filed Under: 2013, appointments, beyond belief, black bear, gifts from god, glorious beyond words, god's gifts, loving life, stressful week, thoughts from me, update

New Blog Title: We’re Now Luv’N Lambert Life

August 2, 2010 by Dana

I decided to rename my blog out of no-where today.  I love my old title “In the Life of a Mom” but I know there are a few other blogs with simular names so I decided to do something more tailored to us.  So the new title is Luv’N Lambert Life because I sure do love my family and our life together. 

Lately, we’ve been busy doing housework but this week is dedicated to school prep for the new school year.  I’m also working on a menu plan and some new routines to implement around home for both me and the kids to use.  The next month is sure to be interesting.

Filed Under: 2010, blog name change, loving life, Luv'N Lambert Life, new blog title, new life

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