stalker

Dear Stalker,

I am truly impressed that you are so consumed with my life that you took time to read through 700 blog posts to attempt to find some dirt on me. Let me help you out. There is none.

I love how you thought sending a few screenshots of a public blog would destroy my relationship and make him second guess our marriage. He won’t. It won’t.

See what I have written here I meant. I meant that I loved my ex when I was with him. I meant I enjoyed our life and how God had indeed blessed us. I was meant to be with him in that season of his life as he healed from his ex-wife and I received the greatest gift from that. So did my now husband: we were blessed with our son.

God places some people into our lives for a season and we are there to learn from them. And I did learn from him. I learned what I wanted in my husband and what

I would never again put up with.

When the time in my life was right, God brought my husband into my life. It was the worst point of his life and the point he needed me most. And God knew he needed me as much as I did him.

God has blessed me at every single point in my life, including this one. And he will continue to be on my side because I believe in His love for me and my family.

My husband has never lied to me and I have not lied to him. After all, these posts you thought you’d upset him with and use to destroy our happiness are public and open for anyone to read. However, I only know one person so consumed by us that they’d drag up a post from 2011!

Thing is my husband knows my heart. He knows my past. He’s dreamed of me even while loving others and it was me all along his heart longed for. He is happy with me. He’s changed his life for me and for my children. He stands beside me and gives me strength when I need it.

And I do the same for him. I am the woman his exes could never be. I am the woman who was made by God for him. I will stand by him and never give up.

You don’t have to like what I post here or anywhere else in my online following. It isn’t written for you but it is left unblocked for you to easily stalk us as you have been doing. This blog is for me and my followers. It’s for my personal friends, family and life. It’s not here to please you.

Stalker, I wish you enjoyed your own life as much as you do ours. I wish you would embrace the love and happiness that God has graced upon you. I have my entire Facebook following praying for you. I pray you find help with your consumption in knowing our life. I pray you also find real help for your obvious depression and possible bipolar disorder. You deserve the same happiness we have. Stop hiding behind your excuses as to why you stalk. It doesn’t take a lot to see how unhappy you are.

But for me and mine. We will continue to live the life we have, to allow God to bless and grow in our family as we’ve been doing for the past two years.

I thank you for shutting my husband out and giving up on him. It gave him the chance to find real, true love. I only hope you can do the same in time.

God bless and much prayer for you,

Dana Lambert – Hodge

I’ve been sitting here the last few hours thinking about whether I wanted to write tonight or not. I have been questioning a great many things, even though I know I should just keep moving forward. It is hard to overcome self and let Jesus work in our life. As humans, we have a need to remain in control. As you can tell, writing has won this night.

My weekend has been unusually wonderful. I must thank my blog “hater” for their post because it really made me take a look into my life and my heart to realize that yes, I’m really at a point in my life that I am happy. Truly and amazingly, simply HAPPY. And my weekend has been filled with nothing BUT happiness.

Saturday, the kids were thrilled to be able to wake up and play together. They played outside for a long time. They even picniced outside, eating pizza for dinner. Saturday is pizza night at our house Then they came inside, got a nice bath and watched a movie before bed.

Sunday mornings are often slow for us and today was no different. After a quick breakfast, they donned their swimsuits and with a quick text we were out the door to visit a good friend for a day of swimming. After eating a snack (ok, more like a meal) of various junk foods, they were ready to jump in for some water fun! I spent my afternoon chilling with two of my best friends. It was a great day away from the house. The kids didn’t want to leave but were excited at the idea of going to swim and visit again one day soon!

We made it home, cooked a quick dinner of Sloppy Joes and Chili Cheese Fries.. Laycie got to go for a ride. Then kids watched a movie while I got caught up online.

It was a wonderful weekend, despite efforts to discourage our faith and relationship made online. Tonight I feel like a kid hyped up on the best kind of candy: I call it the candy of LIFE. God has taken the bad and shown me the BEST and I could not be more thankful for His blessings, for His willpower to overcome that sent by the Devil to destroy. God is the Ultimate Warrior, defending what is made right by Him and leading those who follow in His steps, shining light on the right path, like a beaming beacon in the night. I feel blessed to have found this path, with even my Mustard Seed of Faith to guide me. My Mustard Seed has been planted and allowed to grow into a gently blossoming tree with the guidance of His love. For that, I could not be more thankful. For ALL of His blessings, I could not be more thankful.

God bless and good night!

Dear Stalker {Thoughts From Me}

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