This blog is about me, about my life, my family, my children and their ups and downs. It’s not my husband’s blog and it honestly doesn’t have anything to do with him. It came with me when he married me.
This is my safe place, only it hasn’t felt so safe lately. It’s been more of a nightmare because of one person particularly and her issues. Needless to say, I’ve found my villain in my future book.
This is my livelihood. Blogging, reviewing, writing it is what I do. I don’t cross the line to reach out to other’s jobs, though they are breaking conduct in their personal messages for that career choice. I’m simply not that trashy and was raised with better morals than that.
My sweet husband has lived a far from perfect life, which he admits to and admits to being completely his own fault. I look around him, though, and I see nothing but a lack of support from many who have been there over the years. Self-centered comes to mind when I look in from the outside.
And he has told me every detail of his past and the reasons things happened like they have. He has no reason to lie to me, to keep anything from me or to hide anything from me. He has no reason to fear me. I’ve been the most supportive person he’s had in his life since his Mother – and I’m truly proud to say that he can tell me anything he wants to without fearing judgement and condemnation.
But he’s not the only one who has received this from me. I’ve supported many before him in trying to change their lives for the better. I reach out and embrace the lonely, the lost and the heartbroken. I’m thankful to have gained the trust and love of many over my life. I’m thankful that the disheartened and the broken reach out to me to help guide them. I’m blessed to be able to give them what they need in life, to be there for them and to love each of them as I am loved.
I started this blog as a way to share our life with others, to show them how I make it through our life, raising three children with seizures and still managing to keep sane. So many people ask me how I do it every day. This is how – I live and I do what I need to for those who I love and who love me.
Sure, there are going to be haters and those who feel inferior because of who I am. But really that issue is within themselves. I’m willing to help anyone but I won’t be bashed, or harassed in doing so.
My blog will continue to be what it always has, although I now have eliminated commenting. If you are a follower, then you know how to contact me and reach out. May God bless all of you.
Dana